When you absolutely loathe your officemate

[roodypoo]

i have this officemate who gets more annoying as each day goes by...she's "feeling", thinks too much of herself, and is disgustingly sipsip!!! but really, she doesn't have much to be proud of, if you just see the letters she writes..my goodness, the english! i used to think we were friends coz we get along well but there are days when she doesn't even talk to me, which must be another of her "feeling" moments. we're very few in the office so you cannot easily ignore her.

[zimdude]

I think if you don't let yourself be annoyed, you won't "loathe" her as much.

[sardonic wench]

feeling siya di ba? inggitin mo. yun lang naman ang katapat ng mga feeling eh. flaunt your achievements and always talk about topics that she knows jackshit about.

ignoring her would be great too.

[womanontop]

why do you put all your energy on hating your co-worker? concentrate on your work and her positive side then you'll feel better. or better yet, tell her, "if you have nothing good to say, just don't say anything. have a fabulous day. now, if you don't mind, i have alot of work to do". end of conversation.

[mupheza]

Be civil about it. You don't want her to say things about you behind your back. So never do or say things that might offend her or make yourself look bad.

The best way, in my opinion, is ignore her. Show that you have little interest on whatever she has to say or do. After a while, she might take a hint.

You can try responding to anything she says with "ah...", "ok..." then go back to work.

Yep, i agree w/ womanontop, just put your efforts on your own work. You won't lose anything by doing so.

Actually, i have an officemate who i really hate! Not because feeling siya, but because tamad siya. And it seems he takes his job for granted. Very effective yung ignoring a person. I makes you calm down and refrain from thinking of how annoying that person is.

[DELISYUS]

annoy her back :)