Why are homosexuals so difficult to convert back to heterosexuality?

[muttley]

I wonder why... hmmm

[fagman]

I dunno muttley, Jerry Seinfeld did mention an advantage of homosexuality:

"If you get a partner of the same size, then you double your wardrobe" =)

I guess "Once a ***, always a ***."

[Eina]

People are who they are. Straight people won't turn gay all of a sudden, so why should it work the other way around? Sometimes people are confused, but once they establish their identity, that's it. Anyway, why try to convert homosexuals to begin with?

[This message has been edited by Eina (edited 04-16-2000).]

[Babe]

Hmmm. Interesting question.

I think there are a few people who'd convert back after the "experimenting" phase.. but you don't hear much about it.

There's a Pinoy comedian who did it.. the guy in Iskul Bukul (Tonette?)

I guess Seinfeld was right.. ;)

[Dan Blaze]

:cool: I think people will be what they want to be...the trouble of Homosexuals turning into Heterosexuals is just as difficult as the diffuclty of a Heterosexual to become a Homosexual...understanding it is just a matter of putting yourself in thier shoes. :cool:

[Jennifer]

Eh why would you even want to convert them? If being homosexual is being "them" I don't think we need or have to convert them.

I think the nicest thing we could do for them is to leave 'em be and let 'em discover for themselves if being homo or hetero is what they really want... :) aights??

[fagman]

Yeah, I heard that Tonette Macho has converted back.

[Ira]

It's being discovered more and more that genetics may have something to do with homosexuality. You can't change your genetic makeup.

And anyway, why would anyone insist on converting a homosexual when that person is happy with his state? It's his life to live, after all.

[tRiStAn]

i don't want to ask why you think homosexuals need to be converted (though i think you presuppose homosexuality to be an abnormality), but the fact is that they just can't be converted, and if they can be, it would not be very easy. :)

[asterisk]

It is because they are not heterosexuals! And you cannot get them to be something they are not!

Why do heterosexuals can't convert to homosexuality?

[CaRaMBa]

Why would you want to 'convert' these people? I think we should just leave them alone. Live and let live.

[bugsbunny]

because it is the way they really are...as far as they know they were never heterosexual. it took them a long time or even most of their lives to really they are homosexuals. trying to convert them to heterosexuals is gonna take even longer.
in the end, i do not think that you or any other people have the right to convert them to heterosexuals if they do not want to. they have only the right. what you should do is learn to accept them because that is what they need. they need our acceptance and not your judgment...

[muttley]

Why does every think that it's this crusade of mine to convert homosexuals?

I agree with CaRaMBa: "Live and let live"

I waz just wundrin' :cool:

[CaRaMBa]

Ooops, sorry muttley, that's what I understood from the topic. :)

[Jennifer]

yeah, me too...i thought it was something that you dreamed of doing hehe..sorry :D

[slurbrun]

I agree with all the brilliant answers here: Eina, u being the first to put it with a kick, my clapping hands.

muttley, i don't know what to say to ur last statement. Was that an excuse I just read? Peace and Love.

[Triglyceride]

Originally posted by muttley
I wonder why... hmmm


It's irreversible. When you're straight ..then you're straight..when you're gay...then you're gay ... simple as that.

[bepanthene]

I really want a dog, but dammit, my cat won't bark!!!

[terry ilaes]

Originally posted by Triglyceride
It's irreversible. When you're straight ..then you're straight..when you're gay...then you're gay ... simple as that.

this topic has long been debated for the past decade. is homosexuality a disease or a way of life? (i.e. can you change him/her back to "normal"?) there's even a book about it (by edmund berger md.) but like what ira said...

I think the nicest thing we could do for them

but by the looks of it, it sounds more like a disease to some. i don't know about you. i really don't need any pity from no one if i'm sick.

[kartoonista]

Originally posted by fagman
Yeah, I heard that Tonette Macho has converted back.
Anthony Roquel na siya ngayon and he's attending the same church as I am. :D

[Heart_of_Glass]

Why would you want to convert homosexuals back to being heterosexuals? It is the way they are and some of us just need to accept the fact that they who they are, and nothing can change that. They need acceptance, too, like some of us heteros need and long for acceptance in some things that matter to us.

[MuningKamuning]

Because being gay is fixed and not chosen!!!

[Econ_major]

well i guess being a homosexual or a heterosexual is a matter of choice or a matter of sexual preference. no one knows but the people who are involved.

[freakster2k1]

why bother convert? If u r happy as a homosexual then be a homosexual. !

[KardinalSin]

being one is not an abnormality or a mental disorder...

and you cant chose your sexuality... (******! kung me choice lang ako bakit di nalang ako maging straight... bakit ko pipiliin ang malungkot na buhay...)

Tonette Macho is just not practicing homosexual acts...
pero bading pa rin yon... asus!!!

[kurnel]

Originally posted by muttley
I wonder why... hmmm

Um, were they ever straight?

[rains_delight]

simply because they already experienced having sex with another man. Even if they are converted to another religion, still they are gay.

[kartoonista]

Originally posted by KardinalSin
Tonette Macho is just not practicing homosexual acts...
pero bading pa rin yon... asus!!!
I beg to disagree! In fact there's a great deal of a chance that you won't be able to pick him out of the crowd. The fact that he has given his life to Jesus attests to his changed life. I'm sure he would like to tell you all about it if you're willing to listen to his story. *okay*

[franticme]

muttley - I dont know if you're just being lame or just want to start something rolling here. Believe me this aint gonna push too far. Like why would you wanna convert something that aint there in the first place? Its not as if gays are like those reversible jackets or those powder drinks where you add a little sugar, it would turn sweet? Yah, you're wondering alright why you're bait does not bite enough!:glee:

:sunnysmile: I have accepted Jesus as my one and only Saviour but why should my sexual preference or my sexual demeanor be dependent on how much grace or conversion I receive from the Almighty? Am I a lesser Christian just because I act kindah queer or just because a gorgeous guy suddenly catches my attention? Like have you have found a stupid cure for bisexuals... damn cruel world. :depressed:

:hopeless: Fanny Serrano has always proclaimed his spiritual conversion but why does he still sound effeminate and act like one? Naging madamot ba si Lord kay Fanny at siksik-liglig at umaapaw naman ang pa-mhin na biyayang binigay kay Tonette Macho? Just wondering.... :rolleyes:

[KardinalSin]

Originally posted by kartoonista

I beg to disagree! In fact there's a great deal of a chance that you won't be able to pick him out of the crowd. The fact that he has given his life to Jesus attests to his changed life. I'm sure he would like to tell you all about it if you're willing to listen to his story. *okay*


I wont argue about "Jesus changing his ways and life"...

Pero...sa pananaw ko ha...Bading parin yun... di nalang sya nakikipag talik sa kapwa lalaki... pero sa puso't at isip non... attracted parin sya sa kapwa lalaki...

[renina]

I really do not know the answer as well. It is really hard to convert gays to real guys and / or gals.

I think the lesbians are easier to convert to real gals than **** to real guys. Again, maybe it has something to do with human biology or environment or lifestyle.

Many **** do not want to be as such in the first place. No, it is not also choosing homosexuality as lifestyle. It is also not the upbringing of parents and or other people, although these reasons could be major factors.

From my knowledge, many youngest children tend to be gays, I do not know again why.

Homosexuality actually remains a mystery to me, I cannot completely understand why there is such.

Is God to be blamed? I do not think so. Even when there's spiritual conversion, the physical attractiveness still goes for the guys(for ****) and gals(for lesbies). It is good that at least there's the determination and faith.

Muning is right, being gay is not chosen but somehow is permanent. Even some MARRIED guys and gals are gays. Oh yes, there are bisexuals who are attracted to the same sex.

That's why being a straight guy or gal is such a blessing. Although homosexuality is increasing.

[jackmcph]

Why are heterosexuals difficult to convert to homosexuality?

[ages_74]

I am a bit disappointed in reading SOME of the posted messages. I am a 28 year old bi-sexual male. From some of the msgs that I have gathered, it's somehow sad to know that some people see that homosexuality is somewhat of a curse and being a heterosexual is a blessing from God. I think some of us are forgetting one of the best things that God has given us, Freewill. There are some friends that I know who are questioning why they are what they are, but believe me, accepting what you are and accepting what others are will give you inner peace.

Homosexuals, bi-sexuals, tri-sexuals, and heterosexuals are all humans and enjoy the same amount of love that God gives. The only difference is sexual preference.

I just hope that people will learn to view that non-heterosexuals are also blessed.

This is my first posting. I hope to post some more:) PEACE!

[clone19]

im a bisexual and i really wanna go straight.... pero sa dami ng gwaping na bi din, ***** ang hirap.....

may nanliligaw pa na mga AOK din....

cant help it....

homosexuality is a mistake, bisexuality is a joke. but it sure does bring you one hell of a good time!

[franticme]

Originally posted by clone19
im a bisexual and i really wanna go straight.... pero sa dami ng gwaping na bi din, ***** ang hirap.....

may nanliligaw pa na mga AOK din....

cant help it....

homosexuality is a mistake, bisexuality is a joke. but it sure does bring you one hell of a good time!

:glee: Right you are mate :viking: , somethings aint just as simple as reverting back. Eh paano ka naman magbabago eh hindi naman nababago yon!!! :D

muttley Kiss ko na lang kita pre!:stolenkiss:



:hopeless: You just simply refuse to understand us.....

[^moonface^]

i don't think it's even right to ask such a presumptious question... sobra namang halata ang presuppositions regarding the topic...

anyway, hindi naman ito isang relihiyon or frame of mind na na-aacquire or nababago... i have relatives who are homosexuals and as far as i see, this is who they are, their person, 'pag pinilit mong baguhin, para mo naring sinabing "nyek, 'wag na lang kayong mag-exist..." sama naman non...

... it's their life, their being and their happiness... every homosexual and bisexual i know live their lives the way they want it, and they're happy, and so long as they are happy it's fine with me... :bop:

[clone19]

Originally posted by kurnel


Um, were they ever straight?

yep. would you like 2 hear about my heterosexual exploits?