Can a mother feel the pain of her child?

[exotic_maiden]

once i overheard someone saying that...kahit pa daw magkalayo ang ina't anak, kahit pa matagal na matagal na silang di nagkikita eh nasasaktan/nararamdaman pa rin ng isang ina kung nasa masamang kalagayan ang anak niya.

how true?

[TREX OKIARU]

totoo po.

:nerdy:

[PUGSLEY]

Originally posted by exotic_maiden
once i overheard someone saying that...kahit pa daw magkalayo ang ina't anak, kahit pa matagal na matagal na silang di nagkikita eh nasasaktan/nararamdaman pa rin ng isang ina kung nasa masamang kalagayan ang anak niya.

how true?

Definitely true.......

Something they call in Pilipino parang magkadikit and pusod or something like that.....

[hannah17smb]

http://www.baynet.net/~philip/manga/images/gif/marsloop.gif Not all!

[exotic_maiden]

trex and pugsley, how can you be so sure? just because magkadikit ang pusod or something eh ibig sabihin mararamdaman na ng ina ang nararamadaman ng anak.

say for example, a child is in an emotional turmoil. would she feel the pain? would she be able to tell what's going on?

[JoYcE`TiK]

of course not. pero maaawa ka.

[arki_f]

my mom was abroad when my bf for 3 years and i broke up. then she felt my pain. ofcourse at first she didn't know that we broke up, that would be scary (cuz its weird). what happened was she called, then a family member (close kasi and family) told her tapos when we were talking i know she felt my pain. sometimes you just know, even without a word you'll know.




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[luchia77]

4 my own xperience ,,,,,Yes
like *** i feel to my daughter
sa trabaho ako nun and den bigla na lang akong
kinabahan ,,,,parang ano ba ito something wrongs,,,
tapos bigla na lang pumasok sa isip ko yung daughter ko,
nung cnundo ko na yung daughter ko ,,,,,,may bukol lang naman
sya sa noo!!!!! gosh paran **** kong manapok ng time na
yun ha!!!! at sumigaw ng darna,,,*** can i do nagyari na,,,,,


:heartbeat:cheers lucci:heartbeat:

[BabyFATS]

Totoo ata talaga ito kasi mom ko ganyan eh.

I remember when I was studying in Baguio and then I got hospitalized one day due to an asthma attack, di raw sya makatulog from where she was here in Manila. She called and found out what happened and immediately rushed to Baguio to see me.

[PUGSLEY]

Originally posted by exotic_maiden
pugsley, how can you be so sure? just because magkadikit ang pusod or something eh ibig sabihin mararamdaman na ng ina ang nararamadaman ng anak.

say for example, a child is in an emotional turmoil. would she feel the pain? would she be able to tell what's going on?


Simply Unexplainable....

[topak_fos]

based on experience... it's true.

[BNierop]

I love my son very much...

Everytime something happens to him (something hurtful), I could feel and wish I could take the pain away and bear it myself.

Same is also true...with my mom.

Every week, I always call my mom. Curious ako what is happening to her. There are times, i feel uncomfortable and phone her...'yon pala may sakit.

Siguro, because of love you share and feel..kaya 'yon!

[DapHnes_wOrld]

definitely YES!!!

she once told me "i know ur in deep pain becoz of what happened to ur man... im ur Mom and i love u".... i cried a lot talaga when she said that......nandian lang sila when we need them, always giving unconditional love.....

[_FrOsTBiTe_]

that's true... mother know best... galing nga eh... she knows if i have a problem or if there's something wrong in my life... LOVE YOU MA!!! :handsdown:

[*keyah*]

My mom can.

*okay*

[sabine92575]

yup, this is definitely true... i know when something's wrong with my son. there's this feeling of uneasiness inside me. i can't pinpoint what it is exactly, it's something unexplainable... let's just say, it's a parent's instinct... one thing someone wouldn't have and understand unless they go through the experience of parenthood :D

[Mickey2000]

http://www.mousescripts.com/clipart/images725/Characters/Mickey_Mouse/mickey08a.gif Not really feel the pain, pero nararamdama ng mommy if there's something wrong with any of her children,yung tinatawag nila na "Mother's Instinct".

[cmax]

This is so true!

I had a couple of experiences with my mom about this and the same with my baby. Weird but true. Somehow it's the motherly instincts.

[JENSIE_G]

It depends on the person na. Nasa sa tao na yan.

My mom can't feel mine sometimes. Dang.

[LeeYahGrl]

Mine can't. We're from 2 different worlds. We can't carry a conversation without having an argument.

[i_love_blue]

Tingin ko, totoo din yun...

kasi ako rin...gusto kong pumunta sa reunion ng class namin...eh ndi ko naman sinasabi na nalulungkot ako (dahil di ako makakapunta) kc mahihirapan lang sila sa pagsundo..den naramdaman ni mama na gusto ko talagang pumunta...den she found WAYS *** makapunta pa rin ako...

lam nyo un, kahit mahirap for them, pro pag naramdaman nila na nasasaktan na anak nila...super give way talaga yung ginagawa nila.ganon nila ka-love anak nila

..ganon ako ka-mahal ng nanay ko.. :)

[pattybee]

I guess it should not be taken so literally. What it actually means is, a mother can feel pain FOR her child. As a mother, you don't want your child to undergo any kind of hurt --- physical or emotional. This is all part of a mother's protective nature. Even animals are born with this.

As a mother myself, I never want my daughter to feel pain. But we can only shelter our children to a certain extent. When they do go through their share of bad times, we as mothers feel bad just like they do. Maybe even worse because our first instinct is to want to take the pain away.

:) :) :)

[travis_mc_gee]

DEFINITELY.

TWO YEARS AGO MY GIRLFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME. IT WAS A BAD TIME FOR ME, BUT SINCE I WAS NEVER THE TYPE TO EXHIBIT SIGNS OF DEPRESSION, NOBODY REALLY NOTICED THAT I WAS IN PAIN. FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON THOUGH, MY MOM KNEW, EVEN IF I NEVER SAID ANYTHING TO ANYBODY, I WAS IN DEEP BUT QUIET PAIN. IT NEVER CEASES TO AMAZE ME HOW EVEN IF SHE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND WHERE IT'S ALL COMING FROM, SHE JUST FEELS EVERY BIT OF EMOTION THAT I DO.

[SaD_AnGeL27]

i think so..kasi kung ako nga anak lang pero i can feel the pain nung may sakit yung tatay ko..madrama saka cornypero nasabi ko na sana ako na lang para hindi siya mahirapan:(

[SaD_AnGeL27]

parang kulang yung sagot ko....eto cont..

kung anak nga nasasaktan ano pa yung magulang dba?

[glowingfairy]

on my part i feel that way too! =)

[brooder]

That depends, honey. My mom and I are well...we co-exist. My daughter naman and I are so-close kaya we share feelings of joy and pain. Depends how close the mom is to her kids. Some women are just capable of giving birth but not of being real mothers. Trust me.:*)

[hannah17smb]

my mom was the one who got nervous when i was about to take my driving road test! :D she kissed me on my cheek after i passed it. she's so happy. :beam:

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[chinkiechina]

Unfortunately, not all.

[osang]

I guess so... :)

[tina11]

most sensitive people manage to pick up what the people around them are feeling, but they don't pry or ask questions because they might feel that it's none of their business. for your mom, everything's her business :D so when she picks up on your depression or frustration, she can ask you straight out what's wrong, or if she knows you're going through a breakup or a hard time in your life, she'll be able to comfort you and give good advice. my mom usually knows when i have a problem, but then again she's really insightful and is like that even with my aunts or our maid :glee:

in those cases where illness was 'detected' by the mother hundreds of kilometers away, don't moms often have praning moments and check up on their kids? pag nagkataon na may sakit nga yung anak when the mom calls, they tag it as 'maternal ESP' when usually it's one case versus the dozens of times when the worried mom called even if the child was perfectly fine. :)

that said, i do think there's a bond between mother and child but it's because of the relationship they developed during the child's formative years. after all, up until you hit puberty, your mom was probably the person who knew you and your little quirks the best... psychologists say that your major personality traits are developed in childhood, so your mom will probably still be able to understand you 20, 30, 40 years down the road. :)

[trizcie]

no.

my mom and i are not 'buddies"
or whatever you wanna call it.

i'd say my dad knows me all too well, he can read me, it's creepy.:lol:
he knows when i'm sad, when i have a bf (i don't tell them kasi), my whereabouts (or kahit papunta pa lang ako)...or maybe ganun lang talaga ako ka-predictable, i'm too boring :lol:

:eek:
:lol:

maybe it's just that he knows my every whim. instinct ng parent.

ewan. :teehee:

[sodemntough]

I think thats so true.. Whenever my child gets sick I can feel his pain..Sometimes i tell God na please ako na lang ang magkasakit wag na lang ang baby ko..