strict ba parents niyo?

[f3mm3_fatal3]

hi there! :wave:

i just wanted to ask kung anong klaseng parents meron kayo... strict ba sila? cool lang? or combination?

ok lang ba sa inyo na ganun sila? :bungi:

[hannah17smb]

dati **** strict
parents ko! :eek:
lalo na mama
ko noh! grabeh!!!
pero ngayon di
na sha ganon
ka-strict! pede
na ko kahit
san at kahit
anong oras umuwi!
:glee:
sabi nya kapag
18 na daw
ako eh mas
di na sha
**** stricta! :D
woo0oot!!!

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[11# UST_guard'98]

Yon dad ko super, mega strict, pero yon mom ko hindi. Basta paalam ko lang kung saan ako pupunta at sino kasama ko.

Nong nag-18 ako. Hindi na nila ako pinapakealaman.

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[singaporesling]

Liberated ang parents ko pero hindi sila nagkukulang ng pangaral. Direct to the point kapag nangaral.

My father worked overseas when I was growing up kaya mother lang ang kasama namin. She's cool. Pwedeng matulog ang boyfriend ko sa house ko ( I have my own house as birthday gift noong 18th b-day ko but it is a yard away sa house namin at katapat ng bedroom ko ang room ng mother ko) provided I will sleep beside my mother.

[crazy_fool_22]

im 21 and until now,
super strict pa rin ang dad ko..
mom ko, medyo ok lang..
pero my dad is super talaga..
sabagay, i cant blame him, im the
eldest and 3 pa kaming babae.. no boys.. :D

[Ice Burn]

Sabi pag-strict ang parents marami daw kalokohan nung bata sila kasi alam nila yung pinagagagawa nila at ayaw nilang gawin ng mga anak nila.

My parents aren't strict. And according to my parent's friends, wala naman daw kalokohan yung parents ko when they were younger.

Ako siguro magiging strict if ever magkaroon ako ng anak :lol:

[mrpathetic]

both are strict...

i'm a 24yo guy who just started to go out these past 2 years...the latest I ever went home was 2am but that was only once...now I have a 1am curfew but even before 1, they start calling and yapping on my cell...it's embarassing, especially when I have to initiate the packing-up of the night...I go out only on Fridays, after work and gym...I seldom go out on Saturdays...if ever I need to, I'd have to think of an alibi or excuse either to them so I could go out or to my friends if I can't go...

It's really embarassing and pretty much irritating na...I know they're just being protective pero it's becoming difficult...I mean, how do they expect me to have a GF if they're being soo fussy about me going out?

Paano na if I have a GF?

[pinkpotato]

they used to be strict. when I ask permission for gimmicks, sasabihin lang ng mom ko, "ewan" or "bahala na." kelangan ko pang mag-isip kung pumayag ba talaga sya or hindi. asking permission was always a problem for me. kelangan pa talaga ng good timing. but things are quite different now coz they've changed. :D

[BuDwEiSeR#8]

:imu: Hindi,basta magkusa lang kami na magsabi kung saan pupunta at ano ang gagawin, pero kapag me ginawang palpak,doon mo pa lang malalaman na strict sila. :D

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[tina11]

my mom isn't strict at all... she lets us stay out late as long as we let her or other people at home know what time they can expect us to be home. and most of the time she lets us make our own decisions even if they're wrong. i guess that we'll learn from our own mistakes better than we'll ever learn from a sermon. :p

[sodemntough]

hi.. my parents were strict but it paid off kasi we were raised well. (at least i'd like to think so) At that time we didnt understand but now that i'm older i understand where they are coming from

[Dunedain]

Not mine but my wife's are. Ako ang kontrabida sa mga biyenan kong kontrabida. :D

[hosel]

My father was but mom was not. I thank both for making me what I am.

[kat]

they're super strict. i'm 22 yet they treat me like a teenager some times...

what happened tho when i was unattached they let me go out and stuff but the moment they found out that i've a bf already they became real freakin strict. i always have to lie of where and who am goin with..

it sucks... but oh well..

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[enchiladas]

My Mom wasn't at all.
My dad was and still is. He always had and has the last say.
When I was still a student, he'd always tell me if I wanted to do things my way, magtapos daw muna ako sa pag-aaral. Pag tapos na 'ko, then I can go on with whatever I please. But while I'm living under his roof, I have to abide to his rules.

He always said, "Ako pabalik na. Ikaw papunta pa lang."

I'm thankful for him inspite of all. :)

[sodemntough]

Ganyan din Tatay ko.Im now thankful na naging medyo mahigpit sila. Kaya minsan pati ako ginagamit ko ang parenting style nila but for me, the hardest part of parenting is finding the right balance. Is there a way to find that fine line of being just strict enough without driving your child away?

[enchiladas]

Originally posted by sodemntough
Is there a way to find that fine line of being just strict enough without driving your child away?

Although hindi pa ko magulang, I can relate to this from what my dad showed us. Stricto pero nasa lugar. Hindi yung para hawak sa leeg parati. Naghihigpit kung kelan kailangan pero yung 'respeto' nya sa amin bilang anak andun pa rin and yung respect namin sa kanya as THE PARENT hindi mawawala. Saka I think for the child to not have the feeling that I guess you are pertaining to is to establish a good parent-child relationship. Parang it's an unconcsious way of assuring them. Yung tipong parang magkaibigan kayo pero yung 'respeto' sayo as an authoritative figure nandon pa rin. That way you won't only be regarded plainly as "THE MOM" or "THE DAD." But on the lighter side.

[jharrrdy]

mom ko strict and conservative

dad ko hindi

[CoolCucumber]

parents ko, strict? HINDI! HINDE! bwehehehe! never had a curfew... but of course, i'm an angel ahem, ahem... :spinhalo:

[soulthird]

parehong hindi e... I think they know I'm responsible enough, I haven't made any major booboo nmana kaya they let me go on night-outs without even having to formally ask permission. I just tell em if I'm gonna go home late...