Which do u prefer his/her physical appearance or inner beauty?

[ZipBreak]

Let's face it, if you just met the person, chances are high that the appearance is the primary reason for him/her to catch your attention. It's not really fair, pero it has to start somewhere, right?

And then "inner beauty check" kicks in. Usually the attitude and your rapport (if any). Pag bagsak dun, it doesn't matter how goodlooking the guy/girl in the first place. And then everyone has their biases.

As for me, I base my decisions sa overall attitude. I ask myself if I can live with that person for some time. Pag hindi, what's the point in trying? He/she can still be a friend anyway.

[lynneth_20]

Hey Guys!!! Wassup!Have u been in love? What attract you most his/her physical appearance or inner beauty?
So ano pang hinihintay n'yo, post na . . .

[KATKAT]

For me, it's always the inner beauty of a person I get attracted to. Because when the inner beauty shines, there's no way it could not be noticed. And it lasts forever! :)

[This message has been edited by KATKAT (edited 11-12-1999).]

[lynneth_20]

Hi KATKAT!! :) :)
Thanks for posting! I agree with you kase what's important is his attitude di ba.

[Ira]

I have a friend whose ex-bf looks exactly like Keanu Reeves. Everyone agrees he's really good-looking--even his enemies. The thing is, this guy's attitude and behavior sucked, big time. He doesn't like my friend to hang out with other people except him. He resented the fact that she had to study for the medical board exams, because that didn't give her much time to spend with him. When he comes to pick her up for a date he refuses to get out of the car and would just lean on the horn till she comes out. He fooled around with other girls, to the extent that these other girls would openly make parinig to my friend about her being such a pathetic loser for clinging to him. She kept on breaking up with him, but he was such a looker that it was pretty hard to resist when he came crawling back.

Finally she met someone, not as goodlooking as Mr. Keanu, but someone who really took good care of her and is really a good, kind person. I asked her after she got together with the second guy if she still misses Mr. Keanu. She said, yes, she had great times with him, but to even consider spending her whole life with Mr. Keanu would be crazy. The good looks will fade in time, and she would have just been left miserable and thinking how handsome he was before. She chose the other guy, because she can see herself actually going through life with him as a partner.

[jack]

if you are referring about falling in love then my answer is wala akong preference. honestly based on my experience, i fall in love when i know the person better. i guess medyo i will lean on inner beauty when it comes to that. Pero if you're referring to infatuation...definitely OUTSIDE beauty!!!

[BadGiRL]

o eto walang halong sarcasm ha...

i'd rather be with someone who is not drop dead gorgeous but who can converse intelligently... yung tipong hindi kayo mauubusan ng conversation na may laman...

than be with someone who is a hunk alright but can't even handle a single intellectual conversation....

and besides... beauty is only skin deep...and it all fades in time.... plus.... in the long run... it's all about companionship... sino bang may gustong kausap mo in 50 yrs e eng eng ...duh...boring ng buhay....

[This message has been edited by BadGiRL (edited 11-13-1999).]

[pobre]

I went for the inner beauty and didn't regret it. My family, friends and coworkers think she is really a very nice person.. Her physical appearance ... simple lang.. will not attract attention but has the looks especially when she smiles.

[hOnEy_MaE]

For me, personally i'd rather chose the beauty inside because the beauty outside is useless if their attitude is so ugly..... their attitude usually lasts forever not the looks :cool:

[rains_delight]

inner beauty. I always want a hearty conversation with someone.

[blakedaddy]

iner beauty of course. But of couse you also want someone who is presentable

[AbulugAdventure]

Mas maganda kung inner beauty siyempre... mas nakakaatract naman yun, e.

Beuty fades, personality doesn't. :)

[Hunirata]

can't agree more with badgirl. :)

although, it helps kung may konti namang "outer," ha ha ha!

[LaTtE`M]

For me, a LOT of intellect is a must. Just enough cuteness is necessary. A babe with brains is a bonus!

Finding a babe with brains becomes a real frustration for me sometimes, though... i mean, finding one, but not being able to get em :lol:

[Gio]

lahat naman ng tao ay naghahanap syempre ng may itsura. pero in the end, it's the inner beauty most sensible people use as a gauge in choosing. i have this uncle who used to date models and actresses. he settled down with his former college sweetheart, a plain-looking lady but super bait, marunong makisama, at may alam sa buhay. pero that doesn't mean we should shun the good-looking folks out there altogether. there are those who possess both an inner and an outside beauty. they may be a rarity, but they're there, just waiting for you to find them. :)

[mckoolit]

Originally posted by LaTtE`M
For me, a LOT of intellect is a must. Just enough cuteness is necessary. A babe with brains is a bonus!

Finding a babe with brains becomes a real frustration for me sometimes, though :lol:

huy! wadja mean? marami namang babes w/ brains ah :bop:

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by mckoolit


huy! wadja mean? marami namang babes w/ brains ah :bop:

naedit ko nga... look at it again :glee:

[sneezy]

gusto ko pa din ng guapo eh :(

[Forbidden_Amber]

hmm.. if i prefer to end up with the person or to be with the person for long, i would choose inner beauty.. yung may sense kausap.. at may sense of humor .. he knows when to open his mouth and utter his mind...

[maush]

it's the INSIDE that counts right? presentable nga ang OUTSIDE pero napaka PANGET naman ng ugali... kung di naman masyadong presentable ang look mo pero you have the attitude...iba ka sa lahat!;)

[mckoolit]

Originally posted by LaTtE`M


naedit ko nga... look at it again :glee:

buti na yung malinaw :p

[poorpinoygolfer]

ang maganda pero masama ang ugali, kayang turuan ng tamang asal...

PERO

ang pangit pero mabait at may inner beauty, hindi kayang pagandahin...

:lol: :D :beam:

[AkoNaLangBfMo]

In my case i had chosen inner beauty thats why we broke up, she's pretty and all that but theres something wrong in her attitude. Iniisip ko paano kng naging asawa ko na sya tapos hindi pa rin sya nagbago, it will be too late na. Its better to have a peace of mind na kahit hindi mo sya kasama kampante ka pa rin na hindi ka lolokohin kesa maganda nga marami naman nakikinabang!:D

[biach]

Originally posted by LaTtE`M
For me, a LOT of intellect is a must. Just enough cuteness is necessary. A babe with brains is a bonus!

Finding a babe with brains becomes a real frustration for me sometimes, though... i mean, finding one, but not being able to get em :lol:
:uhhuh:

for me both is necessary but ofcourse initial syempre yung looks but not the pure basis...:teehee:

[Khell]

It's true that we are attracted first to a person, it is usually coz of her physical appearance. When you get attracted, of course you wanna know about her more. That's where the personality and inner beauty comes in. Well, it may not be nice but that's life. :)

[*keyah*]

Swerte ako sa honey ko ngayon. I usually fall for tall, lanky, meztiso guys. Siya ganon na ganon.

Plus, bait pa niya.

*okay*

[bleargh]

medyo mababaw ako e... malaking factor para sa 'kin ang looks. :*)

pero most of the time naman pag maganda personality nya and if he's also smart, guma-gwapo na rin

[kulantro]

dun ako sa maganda... yung headturner ba.. :bungi:

[kice23]

pag mabait, gentleman at may sense of humor, gumuguwapo na rin sa paningin ko :D

[kulantro]

sabi nila its the looks and the sense of humor daw ang nakaka attract talaga sa girls..

shucks.. buti na lang cute ako.. :rolleyes:

[aLx]

Originally posted by kulantro
sabi nila its the looks and the sense of humor daw ang nakaka attract talaga sa girls..

shucks.. buti na lang cute ako.. :rolleyes:

ang kapal :o

so it follows na girl ka din....so u have identity crisis or sexuality crisis???? :smokin:

[aLx]

Originally posted by BadGiRL
o eto walang halong sarcasm ha...

i'd rather be with someone who is not drop dead gorgeous but who can converse intelligently... yung tipong hindi kayo mauubusan ng conversation na may laman...

than be with someone who is a hunk alright but can't even handle a single intellectual conversation....

and besides... beauty is only skin deep...and it all fades in time.... plus.... in the long run... it's all about companionship... sino bang may gustong kausap mo in 50 yrs e eng eng ...duh...boring ng buhay....

[This message has been edited by BadGiRL (edited 11-13-1999).]

right on girl!

better be with someone who is so so so cute but a smart conversationalist.. like u can talk anything under the sun.... :smokin:

[kulantro]

Originally posted by aLx
ang kapal

so it follows na girl ka din....so u have identity crisis or sexuality crisis????
huh?? ano daw?? :glee:

[joe28]

ako I prefer balance of both qualities(physical/inner), lahat naman tayo me kanya-kanyang ganda, but it's the inner qualities that weights us to the people around us. Nasa atin nalang if we're ready to accept & love the person just the way they are.

[Baby_Leech]

pwede bang isama financial stability dito? :glee:

[tsaka_doll]

inner beauty! pa rin.. im the type of person who doesnt really look on the physical appeareance of a guy.. but i dont deny my bf has a good look many heads turn around when he passed by... but his attitude sucks sometimes!!! minsan nagccc na nga me e, but quickly he makes up to it naman. just make sure na hindi aabot sa physical injuries yung pag ka bad boy nya noh!...most of the cases ng may good looks e nangbubugbog!...

[BadAssGoddess]

"inner beauty" pa ren shempre... but let's face it, big factor talaga ang physical appearance! :)

[tsaka_doll]

Originally posted by Baby_Leech
pwede bang isama financial stability dito? :glee:

oo nga!... most of the wealthy gud looking guys/girls e taken na ng kalevel nila!... then yung mga namimit natin na mapera e pangit.. pero maswesweep ka naman sa personality.... (ehem! base on my own experience... yun nga lang ang tagal nya mahalata na type k syA!! waaah!):*)

[amoundici]

i dont want to be a hypocrite here.. looks do matter.. but id choose inner beauty over a beautiful brick wall any day. i can't imagine spending the rest of my life just looking at someone. there has to be a connection. as long as he's presentable, and has inner beauty, wala na akong irereklamo dun. :redsmile:

[LaTtE`M]

Inner beauty is fine, but without outer beauty I'm not buying it.

[j0sh]

it starts with that, evaluation's next, ends up with a decision.

[FrankNYC]

Originally posted by Ira
I have a friend whose ex-bf looks exactly like Keanu Reeves. Everyone agrees he's really good-looking--even his enemies. The thing is, this guy's attitude and behavior sucked, big time. He doesn't like my friend to hang out with other people except him. He resented the fact that she had to study for the medical board exams, because that didn't give her much time to spend with him. When he comes to pick her up for a date he refuses to get out of the car and would just lean on the horn till she comes out. He fooled around with other girls, to the extent that these other girls would openly make parinig to my friend about her being such a pathetic loser for clinging to him. She kept on breaking up with him, but he was such a looker that it was pretty hard to resist when he came crawling back.

Finally she met someone, not as goodlooking as Mr. Keanu, but someone who really took good care of her and is really a good, kind person. I asked her after she got together with the second guy if she still misses Mr. Keanu. She said, yes, she had great times with him, but to even consider spending her whole life with Mr. Keanu would be crazy. The good looks will fade in time, and she would have just been left miserable and thinking how handsome he was before. She chose the other guy, because she can see herself actually going through life with him as a partner.

Your friend will stay with the "nice" guy for security but will probably cheat on him with the Keanu dude. Women say they want a good guy but they are not attracted to good guys. I've been the bad guy and I've been the good guy, and being an a$$***e has gotten me laid quicker and more often.
Women might be doing it subconciously, after all, they are genetically predisposed to search for a provider, capable of feeding and defending; sorry to say, but the nerdy accountant doesn't fit the bill.
Ask your friend if the sex is better with the new guy or the bad guy.

[LaTtE`M]

If the nice guys manage to give good sex, nah, their girl won't cheat.

But they oughta stop being too nice anyways :glee:

[allan1977]

I prefer the girl who has inner beauty, I consider it as a bonus if she's pretty & sexy. :)

[LaTtE`M]

Originally posted by allan1977
I prefer the girl who has inner beauty, I consider it as a bonus if she's pretty & sexy. :)

If that's true, then I'm a sucker for bonuses. :glee:

[reilan]

lets face it, first attraction is in the beauty outside!!!