Was tHere eVer a tIme U douBted yoUr sExuaLity?

[krayola]

I'm just curious if it's normal for hetero peole to doubt their sexuality once in a while without fearing that u'll find out u r not what u think u r.

your thoughts, please... :)

[happy]

hahaha! i remember one time when i told my friend that i think i'm tomboy...she said, violently: "no way! ang landi landi mo e!"

...wala lang, gusto ko lang i-share...hehehe!

[wAgKaNgMaKuLiT]

nope. i never did.


siguro... ;)

[Reinne]

Never.

[blue babe]

nope...

[green grin]

at midnight, i become . . . green grina.

[krayola]

*happy: kakatuwa naman yang reply mo! :D

*LOL@green grin(a) {depende kung anong oras mo babasahin ito)

* Wala ba sa inyong nag-doubt na baka bisexual kayo?

[clone]

Of course!
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Absolutely!
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NOT!
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I am also not BI-SEXUAL or BUY-SEXual.

[bunny]

When i was in 3rd grade, kami ng friends ko...feeling namin tomboy kami...but when we grew older...well, you know the rest...hee-hee! :)

[Ira]

I think everyone naman even once in his life has asked that question, especially during childhood and the teenage years. Like Bunny mentioned, a lot of girls who study in exclusive, one-sex schools experience this. A lot of the times they admire another girl who's popular/sports-minded and mistake those feelings as "crushes". It's harmless, and most of the time, it will pass.

[ndrew]

ako, i have a number of times na.

ang tanong ko palagi have i had enough SEXuality?

hehehehehehehehehhehehehe

[PuNkChick]

ahihihi okies tong topic ah :) hmmm when i was about 9 me and my friend, crushes namin babae... but then se saw this really cute guy ahihihi :) gudBYe na Kami sa Mga CrUsh NAming GIrls ahihihi... pa Cute Naman KAmi sa Mga Guys ;)

[Denise`]

Nope... pero before nung nasa elementary ako I wanted to be a guy cos I had lots of guy friends :) ive never had a crush on a another girl though :)

[blue babe]

hindi talaga eh.. bata pa lang ako, kikay na ko... if there were pretty girls that i admired, it was only because i hoped to be as pretty, if not prettier, than they were...hehehehe...

[jepoy]

Ako po nung bata pa ako, nagka-doubt. Kasi po tinanong ako ng mommy ko kung ano daw ang mas gusto ko, bisexual o iskateboard.. sabi ko "'Di ko po alam eh".

[green grin]

blue babe, bakit ka defensive?

[barfly]

bump

[*keyah*]

Yes.

I think I was 13. No, kasi my brother came out of the closet. He was 19. And then I wondered how come he said he was gay when he had three girlfriends before.

Anyway, I tried to analyze myself. I found older woman pretty, like my idols Madonna, Meryl Streep, Kate Winslet, among many other actresses and performers. Then I just realized, my looking up to those women was due of the fact that I grew up not having any mothers around, that's why I somehow crave for a maternal figure.

And then, the best question to ask yourself if you really are gay is could you picture yourself sleeping with someone of the same sex. My answer is no.

I get turned off by girl to girl.

Back to my brother, I asked him when he knew he was gay. He said he was 11, he already had a crush on his guy classmate. So the three girlfriends he had were his sort of denial that he wasn't gay. Pero ayon he couldn't go on with the lie, so he came out.

I told him about the anxiety I had personally because of his coming out, he just told me, "Trust me, you're straight. Ang landi-landi mo eh."

*okay*

[x_roads]

Ako........Oo,***** 1 beses lang.dati yun nung nagkacrush ako sa 1 girl kasi ang ganda ganda niya.naisip ko 2loy, OBIT ba ko? pero naisip ko ring hindi naman ako tibo coz normal lang namang iadmire mo ang 1 tao because of her beauty.....

[nek_02]

yeah, during highschool. :D but i think its pretty normal for adolescents to be confused with their sexuality..considering i went to an all-girl institution. pero now, im sure im neither a tomboy nor a bisexual. just not the usual girly and kikay type.
but i never quite outgrew my appreciation for pretty girls. my friends (girls din) and i would always be on the look-out for pretty girls and legs. hehe. but that's just about it. hanggang tingin-tingin ***. :lol:

[8_OTCHO]

I studied in an all-girls school, of course dumaan din ako sa mga crushes and g2g's...
yeah, there was one time that I questioned myself, but as of now after living for 19 years I'm sure that I'm a bisexual. pero pagdatin sa g2g, femme ako and yung partner ko femme din...

[shadowboxer]

uh, me? :lol:


:elk:

[Fict_Character]

Always...I like to call my self confused... exploring a world not my own. Because of the fear of a normal life..

[aina_crazy_girl]

very rarely

[bagel]

no.

once i got sick na of being so heartbroken over my ex, that i considered being with a girl (with a closer personality to mine than a guy's). but i just couldn't imagine being attracted to a girl.

[marsone]

I was up a bit effeminate before I was a teenager. Wondered if I was gay (as some people accused me) but never really developed a liking for my own kind. I shed the effeminity just before I graduated elementary.

[DELISYUS]

just recently.... when i exchanged topless pics with a fellow luscious female :)

ayy... didn't doubt pala my sexuality.. wondered lang why not explore that other aspect of my sexuality :)

[socw]

always.
paghindi ako naka 6 rounds sa gf ko

[husky150]

HARHARHARHARHARHARdeHARHARHARHAR!!!! :rotfl: :bounce2: :lol:

[aNgeLFire_bLue]

Sort of. My friend started it. She asked me if I thought she could be gay. I said "No slut!" :glee:

I understand why she's having doubts, especially living in San Francisco. But I'm sure as hell she's not gay.

So I asked her what she thought about me. She said "Omigod Samantha Jones!" :lol:

I haven't experimented with a girl, though. And I'm not planning to anytime soon :redsmile:

[tsokolat]

when i was a kid..kc mejo tomboy-tomboy ako nun e..pero nung mga nasa prep o elementary na..nwala n kc ngkcrush n ako s classmate ko..

:sunnysmile:

[ChOcO_KiSs]

bi po ako and realized this just recently. before, never nag-cross sa mind ko ang possibility ng pagiging ganito ko. spontaneous lahat.. i mean, may nanligaw na lez, i learned to like her, tapos, naging kami. never ako na-confuse whatsoever. hindi ako nagdalawang-isip na pasukin ito. i guess, kaya lang nacoconfuse yung iba dahil ayaw pang i-accept sa mga sarili nila kung ano talaga sila.

[switbebe]

never.

[Ferrari25]

uh... nopez.

share ko lang... di ko alam kung weird ito ah. nung bata pa ako about 12-14 (sa states po ito ah) meron ako barkada na puro boys lang. then napagtripan lang namin na manood ng porn then we wud yah know what!!!! hehe tapos we would give each other a handjob... pero walang malisya dun. straight kami lahat. syempre noon yun pero di na ngayon. alam mo naman sa states sobrang liberated bata pa lang dami na alam. haha

[bleargh]

nung kiddo ako gusto ko maging lalake. :D puro boys kasi kalaro ko ang lagi nila akong inaaway coz I'm the odd one out

[code4thyear]

Originally posted by jepoy
Ako po nung bata pa ako, nagka-doubt. Kasi po tinanong ako ng mommy ko kung ano daw ang mas gusto ko, bisexual o iskateboard.. sabi ko "'Di ko po alam eh".




cool dude. hehehehe :glee:

[bing_gon]

yup, I did back in college, not bcoz I get attracted to girls, which I never did. More of I dont like guys that much. But now Im very sure Im heterosexual, :D :)

[HerSheys]

Yes, when I was in HS. Exclusive for girls kasi ang skul nmin kaya yun! :D syempre sa mga gnung skul "in" ang girl to girl relationship kahit one of you nde tlaga tibo.. parang nakiki-in lang baga.. pero honestly, nde nagkataon na may nakarelasyon akong same sex ko...muntikan lang :).. It’s God's will *****, kasi may tibo rin na crush ko nanligaw eh kaso ewan ko ba.. nde naging kami eh... gnun lang :).. pero feeling ko tlaga.. lalake ako sa past life ko :glee:

[tina11]

actually lalaki ako dati :glee:

[chill_2029]

yeah, when i was 16, i thought maybe i'm bi or lesbian.. now i'm in touch with my sexuality more than ever. masarap maging girl pala! :glee:

[cutie04]

LOL!!! actually din.. ima girl.. :D

[AnGeLiC]

... minsan! :D

[coradpooh]

Yup, nung elementary days ko kasi i admire girls, classmates ko, teachers ko(*** dalaga) then boyish pa ko kumilos (actually until now, may pagka-boyish pa ko) pero now, I realized na ***** ganun talaga pag lumaki ka na puro boys kasama mo (only girl ako sa family, 3 bros, dad & lola ko lang kasama ko sa bahay, my mom is in US) naghahanap lang ako ng "ate" image...

[NotYourGurL]

well when i was in grade 4..im actually chilling with tomboys... iniisip ko ..wow ang ganda naman nitong classmate ko... pero after gr.6 ...onwards... lumandi na ako...lol!

[lost_kitten]

madalas....

especially pGgising ko after a lesbian dream..

:turncat:

[rahne tobin]

yup. everyone goes through this, i think. and it's normal to have doubts. it's not sick, either, if you do. :)

for all those straight people out there, good for you, at least you can have kids naturally! Procreate! :-P

for all those who aren't quite straight...well...:) good for us pa rin! at least we've accepted ourselves for who we are. We can take it from there. :)

[wade25]

me today i finally figure out my sexuality, when i was at my at my childhood days ....

But now i have two options to go forth....

[angel_princess]

Originally posted by krayola
I'm just curious if it's normal for hetero peole to doubt their sexuality once in a while without fearing that u'll find out u r not what u think u r.

your thoughts, please... :)

Depending on the time and stage of your life you find yourself in, I believe that there are a lot of heterosexual people who doubt their sexuality.

I admit I was one of them... It happened in my first year of university. I thought I was 100% heterosexual...until I found myself attracted to this stunningly beautiful girl in one of my classes. So, after much deliberation, I thought I'd test the waters (so to speak)...and found it wasn't for me after a few weeks.

[Le_Peruque]

How can you know the feeling of something, without knowing what it feels the other way around?

Like cold, without heat
or darkness, without light
or hate, without love

If you subscribe to the theory that we are who we are because of our nature, and that who we're going to be is already etched in our DNAs, then you simply have no choice.

Kung naniniwala ka naman sa teyorya ng pagaaruga (nurture), mahirap ding labanan and kinalakhan at nakasanayan (pero hindi imposible).

ewan.

[biffy_clyro]

i am beginning to doubt mine.

[eLowl]

I thought I was a "Playboy", w/ the definition of, ---
"Always playing with 'BOYs" (according to my Sis, lang.)

[eLowl]

I thought I was a "Playboy", w/ the definition of, ---
"Always playing with 'BOYs" (according to my Sis, lang.)

[Le_Peruque]

biffy_clyro

don't worry bro, your condition is not a problem. a lot of young people go through identity crises.

some are just lucky not to go through it, while some deny that they're going through it. :)