what do you think about dating other guys while having a boyfriend?

[PAOUEE]

i know it sounds unfaithful but i just like to know your opinion or maybe your experiences regarding this matter...
pls enlighten me....

[uptowngirl]

That's a no-no in my book!

[raven1008]

it's alright IF both of you understand the situation, lay down the ground rules and still spend time together. it is also better if the third party knows what's going on. ;)

[mparaz]

kindly define "dating"... what if you (the girl) ask someone out because you want to get to know the guy better as a friend, without romantic intentions?

[aimen]

PAOUEE: oi! tinatamaan ako dito sa topic mo ha! pero di ko pa naman ginagawa e! i ask u about it di ba?! anyway, friendly date *** naman yun with my long time friend here in the net! *** naman ***** masama doon! and he knows about my situation and i guess he respects it! http://www.pinoyexchange.com/wonder.gif

[Ira]

It depends on what a couple has agreed upon. My friend and her s.o. have this standing deal that they can go out with other people, as long as they're honest about it. They believe that preventing each other from going out with others will only cause resentment and more problems in the long run. They've been together for more than 8 years now, and while they go out on friendly dates with other people occassionally, they still ultimately go back to each other.

Of course, this arrangement will not work for all couples. And dating outside the relationship should be done with the full knowledge of the other party. Otherwise, the trust aspect is lost.

[happy]

personally, i don't like the idea kasi i'm selosa...hehehe!

[Gilbey]

MALANDI!!! FLIRT!!!!.... sori kung may masagasaan pero that would be the first thing on a guys mind about a girl who is already committed and yet dates another guy - with date being in the romantic sense....

[ChiQui]

Doesn't even enter my mind :)

[Sophocles^]

hehe @ Gilbey

I don't think girls should date other guys while she has a boyfriend. It's unfair, despite whatever arrangements they make with each other.

[BadGiRL]

my uncle's friend ( he is in his late 20s) that he'd drop his girlfriend like a hot potato once he finds out that she dates other guys. male ego? i dunno. but i agree. kasi parang committed ka na tapos titingin ka pa s a iba. isa isa lang no.

[PAOUEE]

:rolleyes: e pano kung wala naman talagang intention *** girl & guy na mag-date? *** namang gagawing masama? parang barkada ang dating sa paglabas?

[rors]

fine with me, for as long with full knowledge of the other party.

[a_h_n_n_a]

yung sa kin, nde naman date. after ofc work syang naghahatid sa akin sa bahay. alam nya rin na i have bf na sya rin may gf, kaso may gusto pala sya sa akin, ako rin ganun. nakakalokah, naging kami kahit may bf ako. sya nag break sila ng gf nya dahil sa akin to prove lang daw na ako ang mahal nya.

pero kung alam ko lang na ganito kalaki yung naging epekto nde nalang sana. ngayon hirap ako sa pagpili kung *** ba talaga, c original ba o si latest. pareho na silang napamahal sa akin!

[Mister Dean]

like mparaz, I think one needs to define dating. If there is romantic involvement, that's definitely a no in my book. However, if it's just for lunch with a friend from college or something along those lines, I seriously don't think it should be much of a problem. Now if one has hidden agenda! Aha! That's when it gets sticky and I hope lightning strikes that person.

[[L]es]

hmmm.. someone must die and that means you. i personally don't like the idea :)

[steph]

even if u call it a "friendly date", ur bf may see it another way..so better pass on it...or maybe invite ur bf along, so that he'd know that it's nothing dba? ;)

[celeb]

depende sa usapan ng boyfriend. kakaunti lang ang makakaintindi niyan, pero siguro kung okay lang sa inyong dalawa, ay wala na dapat say ang iba. like Ira, i have some friends right now who are into this. uso yata.

[rors]

trust lang naman yan eh. whether it's a romantic or just a friendly date, basta ba alam nung kabila eh. :)

[nut_meg]

first of all when you are with someone you won't even entertain yung ganong thoughts...kasi di'ba may boyfriend ka nga and that means committed ka...if you want to date other guys,hwag ka nalang mag-boyfriend.atleast you won't feel guilty and you get to do what you want pa.and if you choose to have a boyfreind be sure na love mo talaga yun' kasi unfair naman nanagiisip ka pala ng mga ganyan di'ba?

[QueelaGrl]

if you still think of dating other people while u have an S.O. then i think u'd better think again... it obviously means that having a boyfriend is not for you. So basically... i think it's a No-No.

[cALaMitY]

I'm Ok with it. I trust my s.o. so it wouldn't really matter to me if he goes out and I'd like him to feel the same. Basta sabihin niya lang sa kin kung sino kasama niya at gayun din ako. Pero when I do go out, I don't call it a date kase usually barkada ko yung kasama ko (nevermind na guys sila. barkada ko pa rin). Tawagan namin dun gimik!

[PuNkChick]

boooh!!

http://www.pinoyexchange.com/crazy.gif

[daki]

that's a no for me :)

[beebideebabeediboo]

well if it's only a friendly date, y not?
if it won't ruin your relationship go ahead...just know your limitations...and be sure that there is nothing more but a friendly date!!! if it's something else... then don't!it wouldn't be a good idea.

[kolokoydaw]

I am agreeable to it on one simple condition: I will be the chaperon.

[KATKAT]

Well, like what most of you people have answered, I, too, don't agree with the idea of dating when already committed. On the other hand, I noticed that most of our male posters here also don't like the idea. That's nice to hear. That means you are aware that you also shouldn't be dating when committed, right? :)