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daki
May 2, 2000, 12:27 AM
i just want to ask your opinion about this..if have u ever been inlove in the net? how does it work or will it work? is there any assurance that the other person is telling you the thruth is he/she really loves you? How can you prove that your feelings for her/him is really true? what about if your far from each other how will you cope up long distance relationship?

:) :)

BabyFATS
May 3, 2000, 12:28 AM
I don't know if you could call it love, but you can always have intense feelings about someone from the net... and honestly, I have my share of these.
Sometimes it can be unnerving to be consumed by these intense emotions, but dangerous as it may be, I let my heart get the better of me.

To answer your questions, daki, it can work. If you work on it, maybe it might. As for assurance, I don't know if mere words can do that for you, especially since you don't know or see each other. And since you don't know each other well enough, you have no assurance either that he/she's telling the truth.

But you always have control over what you say and how you feel. You can always choose to give more, expect less. ;)

PuNkChick
May 3, 2000, 03:15 PM
http://www.pinoyexchange.com/wonder.gif funny as may think.. i dunno kung love nga to ..

chances of a net relationship to work out is almost 1 out of 100... well thats how I see it :( hirap ... hirap talaga!!! whew! but if ur willing to take the risk then why not... u never know baka kasali ka dun sa 1..

hay buhay!

charmaine
May 4, 2000, 12:25 AM
i dont think i could fall in love with someone whom i haven't had "actual" interaction with. it's always different when the person is with you in flesh. when you communicate through the net, you have to fill your mind with so much imagination ... to the point that you'd practically have to create the other person.

Annie20
May 4, 2000, 11:05 AM
teka daki.. medyo personal pero pwedeng pakisagot ha... bakit naman ganyan ang tanong mo?? hmmm... may personal basis ba??? hehehehe.. chicka lang!!!!


(si PIKACHU! ito)
may kilala ako na i'm sure kilala mo rin pero siyempre di ko sasabihin kung sino... pero itong kakilala ko ay may ilang beses na ring na-inlove over da net.. at naku.. baka maulit nanaman... ahem.. ahem... hehehe : )

pero personally, i may say the net is a way para magkakilala .. pero it's not purely net dapat para mag-work out ang relationship ninyo kung meron man.. siyempre.. u have to consider na may mga taong iba ang personality sa net as compared kung personal mo siyang kakilala... hmm... what else???

(si PIKACHU! ulit ito)
may isa pa akong kakilala na parang LOVE ang name... na una niyang nakilala ang papa niya sa pakikipag-talk at sa email... pero siyempre nainlove sila lalo nong nagkakilala na sila...kaya growing strong pa rin sila ngayon.. diba???

hehehehe... bati-bati tayo ok???

Annie20
May 4, 2000, 11:12 AM
u were asking if how u could cope up with the long distancc relationship u'll have right???

medyo mahirap nga kasi as compared to ordinary relationships.. you have to exert more effort.. like regular phone calls... blind trust kung pwede.. kahit na doubtful ka na sa pinaggagawa ng significant other mo.. COMMUNICATION ang best siguro.. pero one important thing.. bago sana maging kayo (kung di pa naman kayo ngayon).. magmeet kayo ng personal.. iba pa rin naman kung nakita niyo na ang isa't-isa.. (by the way.. huwag niyo kaming kalimutan ha .. as in we-- PANGA, PIKACHU and ANNIE20)..

finally, malakas ka sa amin pare!!! kami na ang bahala sa kanya...

osang
May 4, 2000, 01:22 PM
uy, ako daki!!! i've been in love way back b4...of course, courtesy of internet!!! i've been addicted to chat sometime ago & i fell inlove w/ someone i haven't seen in my entire life...bad news nga lang coz i didn't know that he's already married (na naman!!)...sheeesh!!! kakainis!!! kakaiyak nga coz sakit-sakit sa part ko...it thought, it was ok! but no!!!it's not pala!!!
tapos, another guy na naman...pero i don't consider this as love talaga coz may bf na ako when i met him virtually...kasi naman, he kept on chatting w/ me...to the point that i had this "crush" na on him..unbelievable!! pero, kahit d pala nakikita, u can have this special feeling towards a special person!!!..nwey, he kept on calling me...mahal yata ng bayad nya coz sa canada pa...madalas yon ah!!! tsk!tsk!tsk!...sabi nya sa akin over mirc that he had a crush on me b4 kaso lang may bf na daw ako & i consider him as my kuya lang...i was shocked pero eventually, i realized that it won't work not to mention na may bf na syempre ako!!! pero kung wala *****, ang hirap pa rin!!! i haven't tried it yet pero syempre, taas-kamay ko sa mga naka-survive don!!!
good thing w/ both guys, they r still & will always be my friends!!
that's it!!! :p

Nutcracker
May 4, 2000, 01:51 PM
Mahirap nga ang net relationship lalo na yung long distance...hay naku talagang malabo. Pero parang nakakahulog din ng loob kung maganda ang chat nyo...kakakilig na rin. Kaya lang don't take it seriously right away. I-enjoy mo na lang ang lambingan at mga sweet nothings muna. http://www.pinoyexchange.com/blush.gif

Buffy^
May 6, 2000, 11:58 AM
nope! :)

teka daki, y dat kind of topic? based on experience ba or wanna know if it would work out? he he he ano sa tingin mo??? http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif http://www.pinoyexchange.com/lol.gif

pro 4 me, i guess it is far fr reality eh. of course masaya pro ur not sure if d other person is telling u d truth. http://www.pinoyexchange.com/wonder.gif

RöttenMind
May 6, 2000, 03:44 PM
hmmm.. ano to daki? why inlove ka rin?!? http://www.geocities.com/adashki/awink.gif

well, alam mo na siguro isasagot ko di ba? :D

http://www.geocities.com/adashki/loveeyes.gif

(thanks nga pala!) :)

kolokoydaw
May 6, 2000, 05:17 PM
I don’t think a person can truly fall in love on the net. Forgive me, but I need to ask how could you possibly know whether your
e-lover stinks? Would you like to kiss someone with a bad breath? I think both parties should see each other in person.
But then, I have encountered people, who ended up in bed, yet declared that they were not really in love.

klariz
May 7, 2000, 02:38 PM
There were cyber relationship na nag work-out! pero mas mabuti na yung di ka masyadong umaasa na you'll end-up together baka masaktan ka lang.

Calypso
May 8, 2000, 08:29 AM
I think I have, with someone I hadn't ever seen, although I was able to keep a good head on my shoulders by not getting too carried away. It was exciting to see someone with whom I had a lot of things in common online, but I realized that on the net, it would seem like that always, since we have to look for common ground with whomever we're talking to.

As for someone I knew in real life, and then we'd chat on the net... I think that's the love story I have with my BF. We grew really close because of our long no-holds-barred conversations online. And then in real life, super friends rin kami.