professional background??

[hotchic11]

ano ba natapos nyo nung college??
achievements?
current job position?
etc..

anong meron bakit meron dito 'mayabang' or let's say 'magaling' na pinapakita na sobrang mahusay na magaling talaga? sobrang OC.. pag may nagkamali, its either pagtawanan or apihin or help na *** para icorrect..:confused:

hindi kasi mababait yung iba dito eh.. at nakakalungkot.. hindi ako at home nung simula pa lang.. and kahapon pa lang ako sumali..at ayun, kinawawa na kagad ako..hehe.. alam ko naman na may mali ako..may pumuna..may pumuna ulit.. may pumuna pa lalo..hanggang sa parang inapakan na ko. hehe..hindi naman ako makapayag.. pero ala ako magawa.. boss ata sila dito or ewan ko bakit ganun sila.

i am not pertaining to whoever na pwedeng patamaan..hehe.. based lang sa mga nabasa ko.. i've just noticed na meron talaga dito na magaling sa buhay at merong hindi..un lang.. :bop:

[haripoter]

spelling at grammar lang e. nagtampo ka na agad. puwede naman po taglish. e kasi ayaw talaga nila ng txtspeak e. honestly mahina rin ako sa grammar bumabawi na lang ako sa spelling hehe... peace po! :)

[hotchic11]

ahaha..oo nakakatampo.. i used to accept feedback positively.. pero this time, hindi ko maaccept lahat ng feedback.. maybe because it came from the people na hindi ko naman kilala..and i dont know kung anong meron sila bakit parang didikdikin ka talaga..hehe.. yun lang..

[council]

ano ba natapos nyo nung college??
achievements?
current job position?
etc..

anong meron bakit meron dito 'mayabang' or let's say 'magaling' na pinapakita na sobrang mahusay na magaling talaga? sobrang OC.. pag may nagkamali, its either pagtawanan or apihin or help na *** para icorrect..:confused:

hindi kasi mababait yung iba dito eh.. at nakakalungkot.. hindi ako at home nung simula pa lang.. and kahapon pa lang ako sumali..at ayun, kinawawa na kagad ako..hehe.. alam ko naman na may mali ako..may pumuna..may pumuna ulit.. may pumuna pa lalo..hanggang sa parang inapakan na ko. hehe..hindi naman ako makapayag.. pero ala ako magawa.. boss ata sila dito or ewan ko bakit ganun sila.

i am not pertaining to whoever na pwedeng patamaan..hehe.. based lang sa mga nabasa ko.. i've just noticed na meron talaga dito na magaling sa buhay at merong hindi..un lang.. :bop:

Sa ganang akin lang, TWF kasi ito. Kung sa Personals or Small talk ito nangyari, malamang hindi na mapapansin ang txtspeak or some other "concerns."

Merong mga matatagal nang merong hanapbuhay, Inggles pa man din siguro ang gamit na salita sa kanilang trabaho. Pero pag dating dito, nag-iiba ang pag-baybay ng mga salita.

Napag-iisip din tuloy, baka yang txtspeak na yan ay ginagamit din nila sa pag-gawa ng mga "report" at "memo" -- kasi nga, parehong sa kompyuter ginagawa ang pag-makinilya ng "report" at pag post ng mga kuro-kuro dito sa TWF.

[haripoter]

relax lang po, wag mo masyadong damdamin yun.

ganun lang po talaga sila pero mababait & magagaling silang magpayo yung mga taong mga nagpost sa first thread mo they just hate txtspeak.

promise, you'll learn a lot from them. cheer up! :) *okay*

[hotchic11]

ay oo agree ako dun.. nasagot ang mga tanong ko..
kaso yun nga.. inapi ako.. *tantrums*
hehe..

[aeonblaire]

Palagay ko, sa lahat ng Message Boards like this, may mga strong critics talaga. And more or less, outspoken sila. Kaya wag ka na magtaka. Public din ito, and maraming users ng PEX, kaya, don't expect na laging aligned ang style nila sa style mo.

[council]

ano ba natapos nyo nung college??
achievements?
current job position?
etc..

(erase erase erase)

[hotchic11]

aha..HR ka pala..kaya ka strict..

Engineering graduate ako.. Board exam passer, pero working in an IT firm as a programmer.. sad di ba?hehe.. pero okay naman ang income..hehe.. first job ko to, and want to quit na.. i know marami pang opportunities out there.. and im willing to learn a lot..

ayun lang..hehe..

[council]

oo, kasi strict ang feyrentsh ko eh. ;)

[tigress7]

I agree, don't take it personally. I believe everyone here wants to help you and have good intentions. This forum has rules too.

When should I post?

Three questions to ask yourself before posting:

* Is what I have to say on-topic?
* Will my post have proper grammar, spelling and capitalization? (hindi naman strict dito, puwede taglish pero wag naman *** "conio")
* Will my post add anything significant to the discussion?

Honestly, I hate textspeak in forums. There is no character limit to reply to a thread nor is there an amount to pay for every post. At least alam mo na dito, mas strict yung mga tao. Kasi majority ng nagpopost dito professionals na. You will learn a lot from the people here. Kung may pumupuna naman sa iyo, nakikita ko naman kung bakit. Masanay ka na lang na medyo may pagkablunt yung mga ibang tao dito. Pero the more you react to what they say, the more na papatulan ka. Kung ayaw mo patulan ka, i-tama mo na lang *** mga posts mo kung ayaw mong patulan ka (as stated above in my post).

This is a public forum after all so you really can't control the posts of the people.

Anyway, good luck.

[peteHeller]

hi hotchic, Isa yata ako sa mga pumuna sayo at aminado ako hehe..

Ang siste kasi ay ganito.. isipin mo na lang kung ang approach ng tao dito lagi eh yung typical Filipino na "You can always say it in a nice way", na ayaw ng masyadong frank, dapat magalang may "po" kahit na minsan inappropriate na at nagpapacute lang..

It would take longer to get our point across, that is to not use txtspeak, tignan mo nga nung sinabihan ka eh di kuha mo agad diba?

Isa yan sa mga narealize ko sa pakikipagtrabaho sa porenjer, hindi sila magdadalawang isip sabihin sayo kung may mali at lalong hindi nila isusugarcoat ang criticism para hindi ka maoffend.

Just follow the rules and all of us will be happy :D:love::naughty::)

[c0Rinthian]

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[c0Rinthian]

Life is unfair. And it’s not fair that life is unfair.

(Edward Abbey, 1927 ~ 1989)

Yes, there are injustices. Guiltless people are sent to prison. Terrorists make plans to strike at innocent citizens. Facts regarding the poisons in our food are hidden from us. Olympic medals and Academy Awards are presented for political reasons instead of merit. To rise up and fight against these and other forms of inequity is not only proper, but ennobling. We should welcome the chance to make the world a better place for our compatriots and for those who follow us.

In the examples given above UNFAIRNESS is synonymous with INJUSTICE. In the case of injustice, there is always evidence supporting the claim of wrongdoing. However, very often those who complain that the world is unfair are really speaking about personal feelings, not about injustice. That’s because three-quarters of what we see is behind our eyes. That is, it is in our mind. Instead of experiencing the world, we experience what we IMAGINE the world to be. For example, Tom’s boss promotes another person in his department. Why didn’t the boss promote Tom instead of the other person? "It’s so unfair!" complains Tom.

His complaint makes it sound like he’s interested in justice, doesn’t it? But how can someone who seeks undeserved benefits, rewards, or recognition be interested in justice? Samuel Butler (1835-1902) described how Tom, and others like him, interprets fairness, "Justice is my being allowed to do whatever I like. Injustice is whatever prevents my doing so." All too often those bemoaning the unfairness of the world are just whining that they’re not getting their way. They haven’t grown up yet. Their sense of unfairness is irrational because it is based on childish demands and unrealistic expectations. They want to return to the time that they were infants. For then all they had to do was cry (complain) and someone would come and attend to their needs.

If we catch ourselves harbouring unjustified thoughts that the world is unfair, it’s time to change our views. Why? Because such views are unproductive. They are self-defeating. Complaining about not having what I want prevents me from getting what I want. Second, such a dark view of life is unharmonious and disrupts relationships. After all, if I resent and envy the success of others, I will be unable to maintain a warm relationship with them, separating myself even further from success.

So, how do I avoid being sucked into a downward spiral of frustration, envy, and grief? How do I escape the dead-end street of childish demands? Some suggestions follow.

1. Wake up. Whack yourself on the side of your head. Tell yourself, "Hello! The world doesn’t owe me a living. If I am unhappy with my present situation, I have to accept responsibility and start creating the life I wish to live." Instead of looking for someone to blame for your unhappiness, look for solutions. Ask yourself, "What am I doing wrong? What are my options? How can I make myself worthy of what I seek?" Complaining is a dead-end street. Make a U-turn and find your way out by looking for solutions, making a plan, and taking action.

2. Work with not against others. If you have goals and wishes in the workplace, communicate, negotiate, and ask what is necessary to get what you want. Talk about what you want, not about what is ‘fair.’ Don’t forget that ‘fairness’ is subjective, so try to see the other person’s viewpoint. Remember, too, that those you work with also have goals, wishes, and rights. So, be willing to cooperate and compromise. Don’t demand what you want, earn it. Instead of win-lose situations, always look for win-win opportunities. Help others get what they want. That’s accepting responsibility for being a team member. When you help others to succeed, they will do likewise for you.

3. Think with your head not your feelings. Those who succeed, think things through. We make plans and formulate strategies with our brain, not our feelings. If any negative feelings arise, challenge them. Just because the boss scowled at me, I don’t have to jump to the conclusion that he is angry with me. Any number of things can cause him to frown. Negative feelings and the thoughts associated with them can cause me to arrive at false conclusions and experience unnecessary apprehension. While negative emotions such as fear and anger will halt our progress, positive emotions, such as compassion, will pave the way toward success. For example, if a compassionate person sees his boss scowl, without thinking, he will immediately say, "What’s wrong, boss? Is there something I can do to help?" Won’t his compassion transform a negative situation into a positive experience?

4. Count your blessings, not your grievances. How can I take advantage of the opportunities that surround me if I am unaware of them or blind to their presence? Moaners and complainers see nothing but lack. Lack of opportunities, lack of ‘fairness,’ and lack of cooperation. They have never outgrown their childhood concept of ‘fairness.’ They still remember when mommy divided the cookies evenly among the children. Everyone got the same amount. Now that’s fair! Like children, they expect their boss to distribute the payroll evenly, without regard to merit. Once they start counting their blessings instead of their complaints, they’ll begin to make progress.

5. Choose preferences, not demands. Those who remain immature and go through life demanding that the world cater to their every wish, set themselves up for disappointment, frustration, and resentment. Only those who are balanced and realize that things will not always go as they would like can experience peace and happiness. They realize that storms will break, fires will rage, and tragedies will descend. They prefer to avoid disaster if possible. However, if it’s unavoidable they will accept it and, like countless others before them, overcome it and grow stronger because of it.

Finally, here’s some additional worthwhile advice taken from the 2001 Message of the Dalai Lama (Tenzin Gyatso).

When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.

Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.

Follow the three R’s: Respect for self, Respect for others, Responsibility for all your actions.

Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time.

[japspt]

Let it go. No one can let you down unless you let them.

[hotchic11]

ahehe.. okay na sakin. =)
sanayin ko na rin hindi ayusin yung ipopost ko..
nasanay kasi sa chat eh..haha..adik eh..
salamat! =)

[froshie1]

ano ba natapos nyo nung college??
achievements?
current job position?
etc..

anong meron bakit meron dito 'mayabang' or let's say 'magaling' na pinapakita na sobrang mahusay na magaling talaga? sobrang OC.. pag may nagkamali, its either pagtawanan or apihin or help na *** para icorrect..:confused:

hindi kasi mababait yung iba dito eh.. at nakakalungkot.. hindi ako at home nung simula pa lang.. and kahapon pa lang ako sumali..at ayun, kinawawa na kagad ako..hehe.. alam ko naman na may mali ako..may pumuna..may pumuna ulit.. may pumuna pa lalo..hanggang sa parang inapakan na ko. hehe..hindi naman ako makapayag.. pero ala ako magawa.. boss ata sila dito or ewan ko bakit ganun sila.

i am not pertaining to whoever na pwedeng patamaan..hehe.. based lang sa mga nabasa ko.. i've just noticed na meron talaga dito na magaling sa buhay at merong hindi..un lang.. :bop:

well nasa Internet ka kaya normal lang yan. di naman siguro first time mo mag message boards or forums diba? anyway ang sagot dyan nasa Internet ka anything goes..

[hotchic11]

ahehe.. eto pa lang ang sinalihan ko na forum eh ;)
need ko kasi ng help..

[aeonblaire]

First time mong mag-register, pero hindi mo first time magbasa ng message boards?