holding hands kahit di pa kayo, ok lang??? [Archive]

pinkpotato

Mar 5, 2002, 02:11 PM

:spinstar: it's perfectly fine. it's just holding hands! you don't have to be in a relationship with someone just so you two could hold hands. this gesture may mean other things, and not just being *boyfriend-girlfriend*. :spinstar:

HerSheys

Mar 5, 2002, 03:45 PM

as for me its ok lang.... holding hands lang naman eh.. kahit akbay pa eh.. as long as i dont have bf yet! pero pag meron na syemps nde na pwede yun.. kc baka iba maisip ng bf ko syempre dba? baka isipin nyang flirt akong tao.. syemps sakit nun kc nde naman 22o right? so pag taken na .... avoid holding hands and akbays w/ sum1 kahit friend mo pah.. unless he knows hu is that person ur holding to.. yun lang :D

tin28

Mar 5, 2002, 03:50 PM

okay lang, hawakan lang naman yung kamay e, its not as if maglalampungan na sila....

angelcharms

Mar 5, 2002, 05:18 PM

it doesn't matter if u guys are holding hands.. i dnt find it wrong.. though some people might find it improper.. but for me... it's okei.. :cool:

r_69_e

Mar 5, 2002, 07:08 PM

Originally posted by krishna18
ok lang ba ang holding hands kahit di pa officially "kayo"??? ;) ;) ;)

sure! why not?

bestfriend kong babae niyayakap ko pa...

static_vagrant

Mar 5, 2002, 07:22 PM

paano kung nag kiss na kayo, does it mean kayo na?

rose_guce

Mar 5, 2002, 07:24 PM

Ya, I think it's just OK. If you want to show your affection without rushing into a relationship, then holding hands is the safest and most unattached way. :)

ashanti_cookie

Mar 5, 2002, 09:13 PM

duh.

:rolleyes: : :devious: :wiseguy:

dlsugreenminded

Mar 9, 2002, 11:18 PM

wha! hahahahhaha! ok na ok maghold hands kahit ndi pa para pag kayo na iba
hehhee mas ok!hehehhehe

KiTTY2babe

Mar 9, 2002, 11:47 PM

In a world full of people who kiss and have sex even if they're not boyfriend-girlfriend, holding hands is damn fine.

empty_space

Mar 10, 2002, 12:32 AM

Liberatedness is everywhere nowadays. Holding hands is fine and safe. i dont know but i know some people that hold other body parts of other people which aren't their bf/gf, aside from the hands.

i sometimes hold the hands of my guy friends when i cross the street.

:rolleyes:

biach

Mar 10, 2002, 06:54 AM

50/50 kasi bka mamisinterpret ng iba at nng girl na rin na iniimply mo na kayo na..when in fact,hindi pa...it'll result most probably in misunderstandings....:shrug:
but kung hindi lang kasing conservative ang society natin today eh ang cool sana tignan yun :rolleyes:

DisTuRBeD_KiD_

Mar 10, 2002, 08:22 AM

ok lang yun... as long u know ur limitations and u know na friends ***... ang mahirap minsa na mi2sinterpret *** gesture na yun...

mintymalone

Mar 10, 2002, 08:30 AM

Okay lang siguro. Pero you know kung pumayag ang girl na makipagholdinghands without feeling uncomfortable ok ka na. For me, it means type ka rin niya.

keroppi

Mar 11, 2002, 07:31 AM

yun lang? :glee:

ReLaTiViTy

Mar 11, 2002, 07:50 AM

i agree. it means na medyo secure ka na you trust that person. in a way, i guess it means na like ka nung person. or else, nde naman siya papayag na mahawakan mo siya, di ba?

cmars2

Mar 11, 2002, 09:31 AM

no prob with that. :)

hugs_n_kisses

Mar 11, 2002, 09:46 AM

oo naman!!!!!! hindi naman masama yon eh, its a sign of affection that's true. but it's a sign that is shared by not only people in relationships but even friends, family and others. ok lang yan! :)

rage_within

Mar 11, 2002, 04:39 PM

i can't see any problem with that.

momentum

Apr 8, 2002, 07:40 PM

if it is fine with the girl... its fine for me....

shad_ma

Apr 9, 2002, 01:59 AM

you must understand that the way we express our feelings for the other gender varies. Some people would consider having it formal. Everything must be first said and agreed upon like her saying yes to a proposal to be together but others understand also that words sometimes aren't needed. What is the word officially or rather when does it occur when she says yes? Well it varies to each and everyones perception and belief. As for me words are limited by the people who use them that's why I'm more of a silent and doer of what i feel not only in love but anger, hapinness, frustration etc.

hope this helps

regards

ianski_24

Apr 9, 2002, 03:18 AM

Originally posted by EcKo_01
For me, pag-hold mo kamay nung girl, it means secured siya sa kin. Though, parang minsan taking advantage ang iniisip ng iba.
Whatever!!

ok lang yun.. especially pag friend.. kahit nga akbay eh... basta sa balikat.. akbay sa bewang.. hmm... iba na yun... pero whatever it is... i usually hold the girls hand or arms especially pag tatawid, or baba sa hagdan na medyo steep...

EVIL CLOWN

Apr 9, 2002, 03:31 AM

*okay* ok lang un noh!

ReLaTiViTy

Apr 9, 2002, 06:12 AM

but then i guess, it would depend on the nature of the relationship that you have... kung magkakilala pa lang kayo, tpos holding hands na agad, yikes... bilis naman ... pero if you ahve known each other all thoughtout your life,, i guess in a way, ok *** yun. maybe the guy just wants na alalayan ka niya, or the girl just needs comfort ... hehehe...

parang may naalala lang ako ha. <kilig>

new_pexer

Apr 9, 2002, 06:35 AM

ah, depende kasi sa klase ng paghoholding hands eh...

merong holding hands na talagang hawak lang ng kamay... as in literal na hawak lang.... ok lang yun....

pero yung holding hands na may caress na kasama... (u know what i mean?) yung parang ........ (ahhh... i can't explain, basta *** holding hands na parang naguusap *** mga kamay niyo....) hehe.... that's somthing else.. it must mean something.....

but you're question is kung ok lang, ok lang yun.. but it doesn't mean na walang meaning yun.. you could give meaning to it... coz there's something that led the both of you para magholding hands in that way..... kung ano yung something na yun..... yun ang tanong.. it could be love or a sign that you feel something special for each other...;)

AbulugAdventure

Apr 9, 2002, 06:40 AM

Sa ok lang, but I will try NOT to take advantage of it.

sicknsweet

Apr 9, 2002, 06:52 AM

saya nga yun eh, lalo na pag type mo sya :toofunny:
pakiramdaman kayo!:evil_lol:

filty_animal

Apr 9, 2002, 07:04 AM

okay lang -

why not???????

:bashful:

f_3_t_i_s_h

Apr 9, 2002, 07:09 AM

well,holding hands!?i've seen worse..so it's pretty okay..not all out okay..pero if holding hands na kayo may assurance na magiging kayo na..so most probably in the end kayo din..pwede na siguro yon..:p

Ellheym

Apr 9, 2002, 07:34 AM

ok lang! :lol:

STIGMATA

Apr 9, 2002, 08:00 AM

Originally posted by krishna18
ok lang ba ang holding hands kahit di pa officially "kayo"??? ;) ;) ;)

sus! mabubuntis ka ba kung nakikipag-holdong hands ka lang.

s_i_x_p_e_n_c_e

Apr 10, 2002, 06:31 AM

oo naman! ok lang noh.. actually.. dyan nga nag-uumpisa yan e..

but make sure that walang attached sa inyo in any way to other people noh! bad na yon! :lol:

*paw*

PiPeR_78

Apr 10, 2002, 07:03 AM

sowzzz ok lang un holding hands...saka basta ba kung pareho nyo like ang isa't isa ok lang un.

coral

Apr 10, 2002, 07:15 AM

sus para un lang.
k lang un!

Twinkle_duSt

Apr 10, 2002, 10:46 AM

holding hands is damn fine... as in ... as long as your comfortable with the person who holds ur hands... just be sure not to put malice... para walang hassle... hirap kasi pag namisinterpret ang action eh... :rolleyes:

Keila

Apr 10, 2002, 10:53 AM

ok lang yun... :)

hh isn't bad, its a sign na ur comfortable with the one holding ur hand. pero depende din yun sa girl kung k *** sa kanya, but there's nothin wrong with that....

SWEET NGA YUN EH......

spy1

Apr 10, 2002, 12:31 PM

itong holding hands na ito, hindi naman naked?

xxhtownpnaixx

Jul 31, 2002, 10:15 PM

holding hands is foine as long as both of ya'll are single

aznsweetncutie

Jul 31, 2002, 10:52 PM

it's alright to hold hands...even if he's a boyfriend or even a friend...das nuttin...yah jaz h0lding hands eniweiz...but it really depends on the situation, lyk let's say, i got a boyfriend, and he's holdin hands with his girl bestfriend, then that's nuttin...coz u knoe dat they're jaz friends...but if ever mah boyfriend's holdin hands with someb0dy dat i d0nt kn0e 0r s0meb0dy in his past then that's when i'm g0nna demand f0r an explanati0n...

Daemon_Seraphim

Aug 1, 2002, 04:04 PM

ok lang sken...

Daemon_Seraphim

Aug 1, 2002, 04:09 PM

ok lang sken...

Marianne clef

Aug 1, 2002, 04:29 PM

actually pag nakita ang boy and girl na hh, automatic ang ibig sabihin sila na. siyempre, may exceptions like sa yfc, it only means brother and sister relationship pero siyempre it applies to romantic partners as well.

:bashful:

lei_semaj8

Aug 1, 2002, 11:52 PM

[QUOTE]what if may kissing involve?

paano kung nag kiss na kayo, does it mean kayo na?

depende what type of kissing naman yun eh...malay mo it's a friendly one! you would know naman to yourself if it has a meaning or not.

yung holding hands, asus! okey lang yun... it doesn't mean na kayo na if you do that! it's actually a friendly gesture!;)

wackeekaren

Aug 2, 2002, 12:46 AM

sows...ok lang magholding hands noh...dami kong guy friends na hawak kme kamay pero tlgang friends lang **** kme...

New_pexer: Gets ko sinasabi mo...yung may caress thing na holding hands. Haha. Yup eto may meaning na..parang dba magka hold hands nio? tapos yun holding hands, naka intertwine yun fingers tapos yun thumb ng isang hand, cina-caress yun palm nung isa....hahaha ganun? (shemz may naaalala ako....haha...kilig). Neway, ayun nga may meaning na yun ganito unless nanghihilot dba? Haha.

Kung may kasama ng kiss?! what kinda kiss? with tongue? Hmmm...***** technically kayo na? If may feelings for each other ****...technically? EWAN KO! HELP. haha.

paperclips

Aug 2, 2002, 12:54 AM

sagutin mo na kasi para official na..... you can do more than that after..(kidding!)

:bungi:

DELISYUS

Aug 2, 2002, 01:38 AM

if i let a guy hold hands with me...it would mean that am in love with him....and that he's feeling the same, and we're gonna have to commit to a relationship....

even all my labskis cannot hold hands with me......that's a "thing" i reserve to the most special of guys :)

dunno........read somewhere kasi that our hands are our most sensitive part.....so i've made it a point to only let myself be held at my most sensitive spot...by a person who I know will...... :*) ah basta....

JaY_aRe_Dee

Aug 2, 2002, 01:57 AM

hmm, it's not a matter to meeh but i choose which hands i hold with mine ;)

DJORK

Aug 2, 2002, 04:00 AM

...oo nga first step kasi yung hawakan ng kamay eh... dun mo mararamdaman ang unang "saya" mas masarap pa sa S3x ...hehhehe its pure joy... sayang naman na sayangin ang ganoong kaligayahan sa wala wala lang... :(

Tee_Z28

Jul 31, 2003, 01:44 AM

ok lang as long as di ko malalaman na feel niya ako

GilmoreGal

Jul 31, 2003, 05:42 AM

As for me, i'm reserving my hands to the one i love. Nde pwede sino sino lang humawak.

Baby_Leech

Jul 31, 2003, 07:47 AM

Originally posted by GilmoreGal
As for me, i'm reserving my hands to the one i love. Nde pwede sino sino lang humawak. let me guess... you're a virgin?

mozart

Jul 31, 2003, 08:15 AM

sex btwn strangers is ok, but holding hands... :eek:

west_sidah

Jul 31, 2003, 08:18 AM

ano 'to high school?
nothing wrong with a little intimacy.. :lol:

rain20

Jul 31, 2003, 09:10 AM

Originally posted by wackeekaren
sows...ok lang magholding hands noh...dami kong guy friends na hawak kme kamay pero tlgang friends lang **** kme...

New_pexer: Gets ko sinasabi mo...yung may caress thing na holding hands. Haha. Yup eto may meaning na..parang dba magka hold hands nio? tapos yun holding hands, naka intertwine yun fingers tapos yun thumb ng isang hand, cina-caress yun palm nung isa....hahaha ganun? (shemz may naaalala ako....haha...kilig). Neway, ayun nga may meaning na yun ganito unless nanghihilot dba? Haha.

ngayon ko lang nalaman na may significance pala yung caress na ginagawa ng boyfriend ko pag magkahawak kami ng kamay... :lol:

kung naghh kayo ksi you both feel something for each other than friendship and may "understanding" na kayo, okay lang yun as long as single kayo ha! but kung friendly thing yun, you should make certain na clearly understood ito ng both parties... mahirap na ma-misinterpret :shy:

tama yung sinabi ng marami, di nakakabuntis ang holding hands but it could lead to misinterpretations diba? :p

cHiLLsTeR

Jul 31, 2003, 11:36 AM

hindi ba parang nagtatake-advantage yun? holding hands pero friends lang kayo?

:( :( :(

the_g_a_m_e

Jul 31, 2003, 12:26 PM

ok lang saken kung hh lang chaka kissing involve, pero pano kung may foreplay involve pero di naman kayo??

Ellheym

Jul 31, 2003, 01:45 PM

me and bestfriend(guy) doing this.. wala lang sa amin.. :) kala ng iba kami na pero hindi.. ganon lang talaga kami! okey lang sa amin.. :):*)

kykcz

Jul 31, 2003, 03:34 PM

yah its ok! yun lang *** eh! cute nga eh... hehehehe :D

BadAssGoddess

Jul 31, 2003, 03:40 PM

usually kase kapag nakakakita ang mga tao ng naka-holding hands ang first thing na maiisip nila... committed na sila sa isat isa... pero actually it's okay kahet hinde pa kayu... pero mas okay kase kung kayu na di ba?... :)

chill_2029

Jul 31, 2003, 10:42 PM

Originally posted by mozart
sex btwn strangers is ok, but holding hands... :eek:

:glee:

InevitablyMe

Aug 1, 2003, 10:22 AM

holding hands lang naman....

eh di okay lang yun..meron nga jan...kissing pero hindi naman cila (diba amor!?)...:glee:

peace man!

natalie_sod

Aug 1, 2003, 05:57 PM

oks lang yun. ang sweet nga tignan eh. :D

GilmoreGal

Aug 2, 2003, 05:18 AM

Originally posted by Baby_Leech
let me guess... you're a virgin?

yes i am and i'm proud of it !! :D

ScHizoPhReNic77

Aug 2, 2003, 05:29 AM

k lang yun....wag lang holding/rubbing crotch...ehehehe :D

adik_chick

Aug 9, 2003, 05:17 PM

oo naman okei lang un....:up:

LoRdOfThEfLiEs

Aug 9, 2003, 06:55 PM

syempre naman holding hands *** naman e unless kung me fungal infection yung kamay nya :bounce2:

AAA111

Aug 10, 2003, 06:03 AM

ok lang. wala namang malisya eh. i hold hands with guy firends.

hmmm... although minsan a guy friend na "like" mo will feel na like mo sya... ewan... dati kasi ok lang with him we hold hands... lately he feels "uneasy" daw... na-feel kaya nya my love for him?

i mean, normal lang naman ako to him all the time, after that "uneasy" statement, naiilang na ko sa kanya... shyet

subtle_way

Aug 10, 2003, 08:50 AM

ok lang yun. if u like each other, then go!hehehe! bsta sure kyong single kyo, bka mamaya committed na *** yung isa,lagot! lolz

kpg nakakakita ako ng boy and girl na magka-holding hands, *** ndi pa sila, iniisip ko, they like each other at feeling nila, secure sila kpg magkahawak ang kamay nila.lalo kphg kina-caress pa, sweet!

danicalstix

Aug 10, 2003, 09:52 AM

ayaw. delikado...baka mainluv ako sa kanya AHAHAHAHA

AAA111

Aug 10, 2003, 12:12 PM

yep, he's single and so am i.

i really really like him, i make him feel it sometimes, but io dont tell him directly. pero yung pagpapa-feel ko, like as a friend. hindi ko ata kayang... ewan. he knows i love someone... he doesn't know its him, though... pero i think he feels it, ang being the paranoid little me, i don't think he likes the idea... kaya awkward na.

queensk9

Aug 11, 2003, 03:42 PM

Originally posted by krishna18
ok lang ba ang holding hands kahit di pa officially "kayo"??? ;) ;) ;)

hinde! anu sya sinuswerter... pag ganun ibig sabihin *** na

indigo77

Aug 11, 2003, 04:09 PM

i don't see any problem with that.. sweet nga tignan eh.

:spinstar:

marah

Aug 12, 2003, 01:56 AM

f ur going 2 based sa trends ngyon wen it coms 2 rltiionship..la na kso dun..its obvoiusly fine as long as hngang dun *** n u both knw ur lmitations..

stitchesnburns

Aug 15, 2003, 06:07 PM

HINDI!

it makes things complicated.

marz05

Aug 16, 2003, 06:32 PM

it happen to me once...
it's awkward pero parang ang tingin ko nun e kid sister lang ako...

queensk9

Sep 12, 2003, 01:30 PM

Originally posted by BadAssGoddess
usually kase kapag nakakakita ang mga tao ng naka-holding hands ang first thing na maiisip nila... committed na sila sa isat isa... pero actually it's okay kahet hinde pa kayu... pero mas okay kase kung kayu na di ba?... :)

o nga! well 4me when i see a couples walking holding hand yan din papasok sa mind ko na sila na, bt if d pa *** dont do that in public. panu if may mkasalubong *** na kakilala nyo o malay mu type ka din ligawan nun he might think *** na. hindi kasi natin hawak kung anung iisipin ng mga tau :cool:

Yogi_Bear

Sep 13, 2003, 03:29 AM

yah itz OK you know, especially when it feels so right..
wen u 2 feel of each ader and u feel most wen ur holding each ader's hand.. itz not about an official gf and bf's can do such thing..

souljah_boy

Sep 13, 2003, 11:36 PM

okay lang naman yun eh...even if her arms are clinging on to yours...there's no harm done there

LaTtE`M

Sep 14, 2003, 01:04 AM

Originally posted by stitchesnburns
HINDI!

it makes things complicated.

Is your hand an erogenous zone? :rotflmao:

unloved08

Sep 16, 2003, 06:59 PM

so ano ibig sabihin kapag kina-caress ng guy yung kamay mo? eh hindi naman kyo?...
:confused: halos lahat ata ng humawak sa kamay ko ginawa yun e.. di naman kame. tinanong ko yung isang guy kung bakit nga ganun, sabi ba naman sakin, "masama ba?", eh di tahimik na ako..:rolleyes: