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Old Nov 7, 2009, 11:58 AM   #81
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ang masusungkit mo...yung type ka.
Eto yung conventional belief ng napakaraming tao. Normal na normal na eto ang isipin ng kahit sino, and I don't expect you to understand. You never went through the things I went through. Eto rin yung paniniwala ng napakaraming kalalakihan, kaya yung iba sa kanila, nagiging torpe. Yung iba naman nagiging rapist.

This is a limiting belief. Yun yung keyword. Belief.

Isa lang ang alam ko -- you women don't know what you really want. You come up with a a thing or two (or even a thousand things) when you're asked the question "what do you want in a man?" But those answers all come from your conscious mind -- the part of the psyche iceberg that's visible. The subconcscious almost always remains untapped.
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Old Nov 7, 2009, 12:12 PM   #82
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Eto yung conventional belief ng napakaraming tao. Normal na normal na eto ang isipin ng kahit sino, and I don't expect you to understand. You never went through the things I went through. Eto rin yung paniniwala ng napakaraming kalalakihan, kaya yung iba sa kanila, nagiging torpe. Yung iba naman nagiging rapist.

This is a limiting belief. Yun yung keyword. Belief.

Isa lang ang alam ko -- you women don't know what you really want. You come up with a a thing or two (or even a thousand things) when you're asked the question "what do you want in a man?" But those answers all come from your conscious mind -- the part of the psyche iceberg that's visible. The subconcscious almost always remains untapped.
I beg to disagree.
You say that women don't know what they want...and inferthat men should get what they want. That is exactly the thing that leads to the most common and usually "un-confessed" form of rape...date rape.

Although I would have to agree that some men are too torpe for unacceptable reasons, it also goes that some men (women din) are too confident for their own good.

And since you are so adamant on "teaching" the other males...it would help more if you help them keep things real, no false promises of "glory" because at some point...you make it sound like you're hard selling your beliefs, hard selling your self declared expertise.
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Old Nov 7, 2009, 01:42 PM   #83
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Oh I'm not here for that anymore. Wala na ko balak magbigay ng tips, kasi there's no point in doing that, obviously marami ditong mga tao na conventional pa rin magisip tulad mo. Nakikipagasaran lang ako. Men in these boards who think my ways are unorthodox can go get their favorite sweater and stick their peni$ in its sleeves for all I care. Oh and I don't condone rape. I think men who rape women are losers. Bakit mo kailangan gahasain kung pwede mo naman paamuhin at daanin sa seduction? My point is you're too conventional, and this thing you said
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ang masusungkit mo...yung type ka.
is a limiting negative belief.
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Old Nov 7, 2009, 02:07 PM   #84
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you can label it conventional, you can label it whatever you want, and yes you can label it limiting. It's a free world.


but what you call a limiting negative belief... is a 3 dimensional concept that exists, no matter how much you wish it away.

By the way sweetie ,some of us...oh wait...I in particular don't think it's unorthodox. I find the manner it was presented...boorish.
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Old Nov 7, 2009, 02:42 PM   #85
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My actions almost always mirror those of people I interact with. Too bad for you.
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Old Nov 7, 2009, 03:41 PM   #86
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^ nah, they just don't want to argue with you.
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Old Nov 7, 2009, 03:55 PM   #87
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I don't think anyone would. Not my problem. meh.
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Old Nov 7, 2009, 05:06 PM   #88
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baka tinutukan mo ng nasa avatar mo.

free kang mag express ng opinions mo dito.but don't talk about your self-declared superior persuasive skills here.oh well, opinion din pala yun. my bad.
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Old Nov 7, 2009, 05:20 PM   #89
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Well if that's how you interpret my posts, then it is indeed your bad. I'm only here now to prove the post of the previous user to be incorrect (which is exactly what I'm doing to you too).
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free kang mag express ng opinions mo dito.but don't talk about your self-declared superior persuasive skills here.oh well, opinion din pala yun. my bad.
Ano yan pahaging?
At ano naman paki ko sa sinasabi mo? Ikaw ba ang nagbabayad ng bandwidth ng pex para sabihin sakin ang dapat at hindi dapat ko gawin dito? Sasawsaw ka lang engot ka pa. Galingan mo naman kahit konti lang.
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Old Nov 8, 2009, 10:51 AM   #90
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akala ko ba sabi mo kay kimmy2345k, pag nagname call na ang isang ka-argumento,ibig sabihin talo na sya?
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Old Nov 8, 2009, 11:35 AM   #91
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jed_allan... that's because he thinks himself so superior... so even his own parameters are beneath him.
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